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Wake up your teenager's conviction

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Wake up your teenager's conviction Teenagers have always struggled with self-esteem, but our world today is particularly hard on them. When teenagers are not well, they often become self-destructive. Some of the most common forms of self-destruction are alcohol and drug addiction, eating disorders, self harm, pornography, games and suicide attempts. It is extremely important that parents do their best to help their young people develop a sense of self-esteem so they feel worthy and control their activities. Parents can do this by being a positive example and helping them in different ways. Here are some ideas: Spend high quality time pages and talk with them, eat with them, play with them, drive with them and chat, show them that you enjoy their company. Interested in what interests you - ask them what they like to do and engage in their activities. Use love - give hugs, high five, a pat on your back or shoulder. Note if your teenager does something right and say somethi...

The way "Notey" to learn

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The way "Notey" to learn "India celebrates the first anniversary of demonetization," the news headline of a popular news portal said. A year ago already, I remembered the disruption caused by the sudden movement in the life of a simple man, when my four-year-old daughter Kaira had joked. "Mom, my pig is full of pink tones and must produce a mix of other colors." She was smart and although she did not understand the value of money, she knew it was important for her to protect her mini-bank from raids on her siblings. While her joke fascinated me, I wondered how I could make her curiosity spark her interest in mathematics, which she feared. And in a fun way, the addicts. So I designed fun activities that could keep you busy on your vacation while understanding the science of "monology". Here are some things I could think of: Sorting and Stacking: We opened the lock to his pig and emptied it on the carpet. The next step was to ask them t...

The trick is not to judge people too fast

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The trick is not to judge people too fast Sometimes life is tricky, do not you think? And in a way, believe it or not, it's a good thing. Not knowing everything gives us something to work with and prevents us getting bored too quickly. It creates variety. And is not diversity the spice of life? But sometimes we forget that simple joy of diversity and judge people by what they do. Our judgments are mostly based on what we know, what we do, or our own fundamental experiences. This wrong judgment based on our limited personal experience is the cause of most humanity's problems ... In many cases, we are too quick to judge others, and unfortunately we lose something that could be a nice, interesting and happy interaction with another. Is it really possible to regard every single one we meet as the wonder that he really is and as the representative of another unique and fascinating experience? Of course it is! Imagine the wonderful hours that could be happily invested in the wo...

The right age to play with a cuddly toy

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The right age to play with a cuddly toy Meet a friend or family member and have fun with them. The baby is a child of a different type of toy and has a different age than the average age of the baby. Own cuddly toy. Let's find out how these stuffed animals like caterpillar, sweet panda, elephant, teddy bear, motu pattu and other so many characters are playing the world. Toys for children from 0-12 months The baby comes to this new world, knows nothing about the people and their environment. The blurred vision of the newborn demands bright toys and toys that are the softest for this new family member's sensitive skin. The cuddly feel of these toys helps you get your hands on your feet. Soft toys for children from 1-2 years They can play, talk and fantasize what they prefer to their whole partner. Not much to love, but the kids will love to play in the safest way with their favorite buddy. Cuddly toys for children from 2-3 years Imitating the actions and beha...

Teenage anxiety treatment - an essential reading for parents

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Teenage anxiety treatment - an essential reading for parents Better to be a teenager with huge technical equipment, gears, games, cell phones and unlimited pleas. Nevertheless, he or she is not happy with life because of fear. Today, this phenomenon is widespread and viral among adolescents around the world, especially in developed countries. The magic of technology brings youth and adolescents. "Teenagers are getting more and more anxious and tired," suggested a recent poll. Puberty is a sensitive age in which the basic needs of life must be understood. You explore the world and the hereafter. You are a novice in experimenting and you want to be an adventurer and sometimes take the risk quickly. "Some adolescents, as if they were not yet born, are obvious immature behaviors and extraordinary activities," said a youth psychology doctor. Reasons for the concern of the young people Everything changes physically and mentally, but then you plunge into the ...
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Technology, social media and your teenager My children attend an extremely low-tech school. There are no televisions, computers or tablets in the classroom, and mobile phones are prohibited during the school day. Families are asked to keep their children free for the first years of their life (up to six years), and for classes 1 to 7, limited time is recommended at weekends. Our family has followed these guidelines since our children went to school and we rarely deviate from them. Now that my daughter is 13 years old and in high school, the struggle to limit screening time and exposure to social media is real. Most of my daughter's classmates have Instagram accounts, and many of them smuggle phones into the classroom, despite the no-tech rule. She says at her own expense she often feels disconnected from her classmates because she has not seen the latest Instagram post everyone is talking about. Do we prevent their ability to socialize and communicate with their friends? Mayb...

Teach children a twisted look at success

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Teach children a twisted look at success "The agent state - people allow others to direct their actions and then transfer the responsibility for the consequences to the person giving the orders" Milgram (1974). For many adults, escaping work is simply spending time without "telling the man" what to do. It can safely be asserted that the vast majority of adults are naturally opposed to the level of control they undergo at the workplace, however necessary that control may be. Even when a friendly boss delivers orders in a courteous manner, a strong desire for autonomy remains. When I played conkers, marbles, army, snowball fight or glide at schoolyard ice cream, it was combined with a certain degree of autonomy with roughly agreed rules, whereby infringement of these rules was taken care of with a collective justice of my young peers. Wrong and right were self-taught and self-taught as a result of everyday experiences without the controlling influence of adult...